Sleep when your baby sleeps
Try to rest when your baby sleeps. It might be tempting to use this time to catch up with housework or other chores, but sometimes getting rest is more important. Set an alarm if you're worried about sleeping for too long.
Get an early night
Try to go to bed really early for, say, 1 week. If you can't sleep when you go to bed, do something relaxing for half an hour beforehand, such as soaking in a hot bath.
Ask friends and relatives for extra support
You could ask a relative or friend to come round and look after your baby while you have a nap.
If you're on your own, you could see if a friend or relative could stay with you for a few days so you can get more sleep.
Understand your baby's sleep patterns
The phase when your baby wakes several times a night won't last forever. As babies get older, they sleep for longer periods.
Find out more about how much sleep babies need, what to expect, and how to help your baby to sleep.
Try to do more exercise
When you're feeling tired, doing more exercise may be the last thing you feel like doing. But regular exercise can help you feel less tired.
Walking is one of the easiest forms of exercise. Try to get out for a walk every day with your baby, even if it's just to the shops.
Try relaxation exercises
As little as 5 to 10 minutes of deep relaxation may help refresh you. You can learn relaxation techniques online, or go to the library for books or DVDs.
Start by trying this simple breathing exercise that you can do anywhere.
Don't let stress get on top of you
Sometimes you can feel tired because you're stressed. If you can do something about the stress, you might find it easier to cope, even if you can't get any more sleep.
Be aware of the signs of postnatal depression
If you can't sleep at night even when your baby is asleep or you feel tired all the time, these could be signs of postnatal depression.
Other signs include feeling down or hopeless and not enjoying the things you normally enjoy.
If you think you may be depressed, talk to your GP or health visitor as soon as possible so you can get the help you need to make a quick recovery.
Where to get further help
- If you're feeling really tired and struggling to cope, talk to your GP or health visitor. Find out about services and support for parents.
- Cry-sis offers advice on coping with a crying or restless baby. You can call their helpline on 08451 228 669. It's open 7 days a week from 9am to 10pm.
- Family Lives has a free helpline you can call for information and support on parenting or family issues. The number is 0808 800 2222 and it's open Monday to Friday, 9am to 9pm, and Saturday and Sunday, 10am to 3pm.
- Home-Start offers support to parents and carers through a parent-helper visiting scheme. Contact your local Home-Start.