Money and financial support
You may find it difficult to cope financially if you have to stop work or work part-time because of cancer.
If you have cancer or you're caring for someone with cancer, you may be entitled to financial support such as:
- Statutory Sick Pay from your employer, if you have a job but cannot work because of your illness
- Employment and Support Allowance if you do not have a job and cannot work because of your illness
- Carer's Allowance if you're caring for someone with cancer
- other benefits if you have children living at home or a low household income
Speak to the social worker at your hospital to find out as early as possible what financial help is available to you.
People being treated for cancer are entitled to apply for an exemption certificate, giving them free prescriptions for all medication, including medicine for unrelated conditions.
The certificate is valid for 5 years and you can apply for it through your GP or cancer specialist.
Talk to others
It's not always easy to talk about cancer, either for you or your family and friends. You may sense that some people feel awkward around you or avoid you.
Being open about how you feel and what your family and friends can do to help may put them at ease. Do not feel embarrassed or awkward about telling them that you need some time to yourself, if that's what you need.
If you have questions, your GP or nurse may be able to reassure you. You may find it helpful to talk to a trained counsellor or psychologist, or someone at a specialist helpline. Your GP surgery will have information about these.
Some people find it helpful to talk to other people who have mouth cancer, either at a local support group or through an online chat room:
You can also call the Saving Faces helpline on 07487 235438 (9am to 5pm) to speak to a member of staff who will be able to put you in touch with other people who've had the same treatment as you. Alternatively, you can contact Saving Faces by email: firstname.lastname@example.org
Caring for someone with mouth cancer
If you're caring for someone with mouth cancer, it's important to look after yourself and get as much help as possible. You may need a break from caring if you're finding it difficult to cope.
Find out more about carers' breaks and respite care.
Your guide to social care and support has a lot of information and advice about different sources of support.
You can also call the Carers Direct helpline on 0300 123 1053 (Monday to Friday, 9am to 8pm and weekends, 11am to 4pm).